Top 3 Things a Man Should Look For in a Woman

Top 3 Things a Man Should Look For in a Woman

Updated on: by Emma Brown

Once in a lifetime, almost every man comes to a point whereby he has to choose a partner – either a beloved wife or a faithful girlfriend. But what is crucial here is that this step ought to be thoughtful and deliberate.

Today people fight for the equality and fair opportunities, so finding a woman for ‘pleasing’ basic men needs is considered as 'mauvais ton' and abuse. And isn’t it better to spend the entire life with a devout spouse who has ambitions rather than with a ‘Barbie-doll’?

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So how not to make a mistake when choosing such a person? Here comes dating. This stage of a relationship is an ideal opportunity to get to know the other person better. Going out on a date with a lady could help a gentleman to learn about her characters, plans for the future, past delusions, most importantly, her understanding of being a wife.


However, it is challenging for busy people to make time for romantic affairs, especially if a man wants to find a girlfriend from the overseas . Fortunately, there has evolved online dating, which is beneficial both for mail-order brides and gentlemen who search for love.

But before stepping into the realm of online dating, or any dating in general, every male should be aware of the traits that he wants to see in his potential wife.

So here are top-3 things that a man ought to look for in a woman.

#1. Personality

It is totally fine when women take care of their appearance, but that should not be the end in itself for men when they are searching for girlfriends.

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When a man is aware of the fact that he is looking for individuality in a woman, he will be more serious at making plans with this person, treating her like an equal to himself but not as a ‘toy.’


Yes, there are women with various characters. Some are cute, helpful and kind, whereas the others are firm, serious and aspiring, but this does not make them worse. A man should understand that a real wife can only be a real person with her own peculiarities. And he should either accept them or keep searching.

Mail-order bride sites are usually deluged with rocking, impressive beauties accounts. But when choosing a spouse, a man better interact with her online for longer rather than jumping at the first one. Not all that glitters is gold.

#2. Esteem

How a woman presents herself tells a lot about who she really is. At the same time, how she respects a man is another characteristic of her real self.

If a mail-order bride gladly exposes her body to males all over the world on an online dating website that could be the first hint for a man.

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There’s nothing wrong with women dressing up the way they want, but if a gentleman an looks for a faithful and beloved spouse, he'd better find out whether the girlfriend he intends to marry, indeed respects herself. Because if a woman does not esteem herself, there is a high possibility she will not respect her partner.

The best way to make it clear is to interact with the lady. If it is a mail-order bride, it’s better to use various communication tools to talk with her – from chatting to video calls – and if it’s a typical dating, then going out would work perfectly well.

#3. Fondness

That’s all well and good, but things will definitely not work out if there’s no physical attraction between two dates.

When choosing a wife, a man should also consider this fact thoughtfuly. Only a woman, who can show affection, can become a beloved one. Only a girlfriend with a spark in her eyes can make the male feel like never before. There’s no happy marriage without both-side satisfying sex, let’s be frank.

Each partner may feel the crazy affection and fondness when dating. But when it comes to mail-order bride services, it is better not to neglect the opportunity to see the girl in real life after a period of online communication to see whether there is some ‘chemistry’ between the two.

Sure, there are more things that each man should consider when finding a wife, but these are the core ones. Adhere to these pieces of advice and be ready to meet your beloved.

Emma Brown
Renowned Dating Coach and Author
Emma has been working in online dating and matchmaking industry for over 25 years. Two years ago she joined YourBride as a contributing editor and relationship expert. Today Emma shows singles the way to find true love by sharing her dating and relationship tips.