Isn’t it a dream of every mature man to have a young beautiful, smart and promising creature by his side? If you already have one, you must be fortunate and, most importantly, proud of yourself as it’s not every wrinkled man that could get the attention of a young lady.
But dating a younger woman can be challenging at times, just like any other relationship which has its own peculiarities. Here are the most crucial tips for you to deal with a younger woman.
1. Treat her as equal and don’t try to buy her
It happens that older men when they start dating think that their younger companions are inferior to them due to the age. Some, out of their status and level of wealth, try to place their ladies in golden cages. But never do it, otherwise, you will end up being alone or find your date has a clandestine lover.
2. Show your emotional maturity
This is what her peers can never show off with. You don’t have to be a young stud to impress your date. Instead, you can give her long-lasting passion, understanding and your strong shoulder to rest on. That is, actually, she’s with you.
3. Don’t try to look younger for her
Listen, never try on torn skinny Levis and tight translucent top. Never. We know, you might want to look like guys of her age and you may think this is seductive, but.. no. There are way more options for you not to make yourself look ridiculous.
4. Admire her
Yes, this is the most crucial thing which young boys never understand. They often take their girlfriends for granted, but you, as a grown man, should know that what a woman needs are appreciation and respect. Only thus she will give all of her to you.
She’s with you, because she can rely on you in all senses. If there is anything you can teach her, do this. But make sure you don’t sound to her like a know-it-all pundit. Try to catch that curiosity on her eye and, most importantly, educate her in bed. She will like it.
6. Don’t try to be an athlete in bed
Once again, about bed. You neither need energetic drinks nor via gar to last longer and look like a macho. Think! There’s much more you can offer her: your tongue, lips, fingers, and hands. With all that versatile set of tools you can make her get (who knows?) her first-ever orgasm.
7. Stop giving a thing about rumors
People will talk badly behind her and your backs. Why? We don’t know why, maybe, because they are jealous and envy, maybe, because they aren’t used to anything new, including a relationship between a younger woman and an older man.
So what you need to do is to trust you date first. Yes, you might believe the first gossip about her new boy, but how would you feel if you scold her and then learn it as untrue?
Whatever happens, remember, you are a couple, and it’s two of you who will set the rules and put the trust first.
Dave Greenberg
Popular Dating Expert, Senior Editor and Writer
Dave Greenberg is a senior associate editor and writer at Yourbride specializing in international marriages and mail-order bride services. Before joining Yourbride, Dave Greenberg has been a professional dating coach who stands behind 20+ successful marriages. Being an experienced couple counselor, Dave continues helping singles find their matches all over the world.
